By Shawn Crane
Talking to women is an important skill when it comes to attracting women, and it's a lot different than talking to men. Women like to have ups and downs in their conversations, more drama. You can have a conversation with your guy friends and have the same tone of voice through-out, but if you did that with a woman, she'll think you're pretty boring.
When you're learning how to talk to women, here are a few things you should try. Of course, nothing is set in stone, but these tips will work very well:
1.) Have fun! Don't be so serious...
All guys who are good with women are playful and know how to make a girl laugh. It's important to have a sense of humor and realize that we're not a lot of fun to hang out with if we take ourselves too seriously. So don't worry about the logical structure of your conversations with women. They don't think logically anyway, so what's the point in trying?
2.) Talk about her and her interests...
Anytime the conversation goes flat, just ask her a question about herself. It could be anything, just keep the words flowing. You don't always have to be talking constantly, allow for natural breaks in the conversation, but for the most part, it's pretty easy to keep a conversation going if you just keep asking her about herself. And once that gets old, you can just tell her what's on your mind. It shouldn't be all that difficult for you, and it shouldn't feel forced.
3.) Be flirty with her...
If you're talking to a woman you have a romantic interest in, then you should be flirty with her. Every now and then tell her how sexy she looks while eating spagetti. Tell her how sexy she looks when she's stuffing her face with oreos. Whatever. Just don't be afraid to let her know you're attracted to her. Hopefully you both will be comfortable touching each other, hugging, tickling, kissing. Physical comfort is key, and as long as your relaxed around her, she's going to be relaxed too.
Remember, talking to girls is not to be taken too seriously. Have fun, talk about her interests, be flirty, and stay relaxed! Practice this stuff and in no time you'll see a dramatic improvement in your relationships with women...