By Shawn Crane
Learning how to pick up women is a fine art. Don't let anyone tell you it's easy. It takes lots of practice in order to master. But once you do learn how to pick up women, you'll be able to get a girlfriend anytime you want. You'll be able to approach women with ease, and even date 9's and 10's that make most guys drool. Sound good? I thought so! So let's take a look at a few steps that any guy can use to learn how to pick up women...
1.) Learn how to approach girls
This might sound obvious, but learning how to approach girls is critical if you want to learn how to pick up women. In order to approach a girl successfully, you want to be casual. Ask her for directions, ask her for the time, ask her if there is a mexican restaraunt nearby. Then immediately change topics and ask her if she's from the area. Don't be creepy about it. It's just a passing question. Switch gears again and tell her you think she has a great [fashion sense/hair style/tattoo] and without hesitating, ask her if she wants to [get a coffee/drink] sometime.
2.) Be cool man! Don't let your heart rate go through the roof...
Once you've learned how to walk up to a girl and ask her a few questions, you'll get more comfortable with it. The goal is to keep your heart heart normal. You don't want to get nervous, sweaty palms, stilted. You want to behave as if you're hanging out with your best friend, just shooting the shit. When you can behave normally around an attractive woman, without acting all weird, you'll be able to get a lot more phone numbers and dates from attractive women.
3.) Practice, practice, practice...
Look, you're probably going to fail the first time you walk up to a girl and ask her for her phone number. But that's ok. It's not easy. Just make sure you've got a good fashion sense and you're doing everything you can to look good. Don't go overboard though. Trying too hard is equally unappealing. Practice approaching girls, learning how to talk to girls, and flirting with girls, and with time, you'll become a master at picking up women.