By Shawn Crane
If you're a man, then I don't have to tell you how amazing women can be. Sure, they can be crazy/psycho/nuts, but you can also have some serious fun with them too, as long as you're with a cool/beautiful/fun chick. So, I'm going to share 7 rules with you that that you can use to learn how to pick up women.
1.) Hang out where there are women
This is kind of a no-brainer. If you're sitting on your couch, then you're not going to meet any women there. So get off your butt and go to where the girlies are. This could be at the local coffee shop, the mall, the movie theater, university, work, parties, downtown... If you want to meet women, then you need to go to them. They're not going to come knocking down your door.
2.) Learn what sexy is
If you want women to check you out, if you want to have the best possible chance at connecting with a beautiful woman, (I'm talking about 9's and 10's here) you've got to project a sexy vibe. Learn what sexy is. Read Esquire and GQ and study their looks. You'll notice the guys are put together well, but still have a "rough around the edges" look. Be masculine, and pay attention to fashion. It's a combination most women can't resist. Letting your hair grow out a little doesn't hurt either. ;-)
3.) Smile - send out a friendly vibe
When you're getting to know someone, its best to make sure they know you're a friendly person. Most of the time, we don't realize that we're just standing there with a blank expression on our face, even if we're in a good mood. So be sure to smile, and when you approach a girl, be friendly and energetic.
4.) Ask her questions to keep the conversation going
When you're trying to meet women, you've got to approach and start the conversation, and learn how to talk to her. And then, the battle is still not yet won. You've got to keep the conversation rolling by asking her questions, teasing her a little, and telling her about you. After 5 minutes, if she hasn't run away, she'll probably open up and you won't have to do as much work. But for the first few minutes, expect to do most of the talking.
5.) Get her phone number!
No matter how charming you are when you first meet a woman, you've got to get her number if you want to connect with her later on. So ask her for her phone number. Pull out your phone first, ask her, and just look down at your phone like you're waiting for her to give you her number. She'll do it. Then send her a text message so she has your number.
6.) Keep the "date" casual
In fact, I wouldn't even call it a date. Just say, "hey you wanna go down to bar/coffeeshop/park" and "grab something to eat, I'm starving." Keep it casual, like you're talking to a friend that you've known for years... If you call her up and say "Would you like to go on a date with me?"... well, that's akward! You can go here to learn more about how to ask a woman out...
7.) Don't put all your eggs in one basket
It's easy to get your hopes up when you meet a great girl, but the thing is, she may not be into you for whatever reason. But don't let that get you down. Just hang out with her (if she's into it) and see where it goes. Flirt with her, and let her know you're interested in her sexually. If she finds you attractive, she won't have a problem getting physical. But when you're first learning how to meet women on a regular basis, don't be surprised when it doesn't work out. It happens to the best of us!