By Shawn Crane
If you want to learn how to get a girlfriend, you've come to the right place. Depending on how old you are, there are a few ways to go about learning how to get a girlfriend. What you should figure out first is, what type of girl you want. Do you want a sporty girl? Or smart girl? A working professional? An outdoors girl? There are all kinds of women out there and you need to learn what types of girls suit your personality. Here are the steps to get a girlfriend:
1.) Learn how to talk to girls
This may sound silly, but women are light-hearted creatures by nature. They're definitely not as serious as most guys. So you want to learn how to have fun, playful chat. Don't talk about subjects that women have no knowledge of. Talk about things that are important to them, which is mainly themselves! Learn how to approach a girl, and ask her how her [work/school/divorce] is going. Ask her what her favorite flavor ice cream is. Ask her what her favorite music is. Don't worry about the answers, just focus on creating a fun vibe with her. Don't be afraid to tell her what you really think. Watch how other girls talk to each other. You'll learn a lot.
2.) Learn how to ask a girl out
This isn't as hard as you might think. Most guys make way too big a deal over how to ask a girl out when they're learning how to get a girlfriend. What you really want is her phone number. That's more important than getting a date. If you get her phone number, you can call her or text her and get to know her more, and go out on dates when you both have the time. To get her phone number, just say: "Hey, what's your phone number? I'd like to text you when I'm bored at [school/work/prison]. Once you get her number, then you can ask her out whenever you feel like it. If she's into you, she'll respond to your text messages. If she doesn't respond, then don't take it personally, and move on to another girl.
3.) Kiss her!
If you like a girl, and she's hanging out with you, and she's laughing, smiling, touching you, then she's probably into you. Don't be afraid to get close to her. Pay close attention to how she reacts. If she likes you, she won't have any problem being [hugged/caressed/kissed]. If she's smiling, then you're pretty much golden. Lean in, get close to her face, but go slowly. If she wants you to kiss her, she won't pull away. If she's not ready, or isn't into you, then she'll pull back. If she doesn't change her position, and is looking at you with a little smile on her [hopefully cute] face, then slowly move in for the kiss. Remember, to keep it slow and sensual. She'll appreciate it!
Follow these steps and you'll learn how to find a girlfriend in no time!