By Shawn Crane
Learning how to approach women is one of the best skills you can develop as a man. Once you get it down, you'll be able to get a girlfriend anytime you want. After you get good at it, then you should practice flirting with women, so that you can quickly turn up the heat and make things sexual.
If you want to get good at approaching girls, then just follow this simple formula.
1.) Use the immediate environment around you
Basically, when you see a hot girl, you need to engage her. You can't wait, or else you might lose her forever. So what you want to do is, if she's walking towards you, hold up your hand and say "Excuse me, I was wondering if you could tell me where the [professors office/whatever] is?" She'll stop, and think about your question for a minute, then proceed to give you directions.
That's just one example. The main idea is to use the environment you're in to come up with a reason to talk to her. If you're at the mall, ask her where the Sports Authority is. If you're at the coffee shop, as her what drink is the best. It almost doesn't matter, as long as you keep a smile on your face!
2.) Smile and be a charming little devil
Look, if you're not smiling, she's going to think you're not at all into her. You want her to know you're into her. So smile. Keep the conversation moving by asking questions. As soon as it goes flat, ask another question. Then tell her what you're doing, what you're up to, but don't drag it out. Don't expect her to keep the conversation going. You've got to carry it. Then, if she's smiling, you can flirt a little with her. Tell her she "seems like a [cool/sexy/fun/interesting] girl" and ask her for her phone number.
3.) Follow up quickly with text messages or a phone call...
If she does give you her number, then make sure you send her a quick text right away. Something that says, "Was nice to meet you, here's my number, let's get a drink sometime." If you don't follow up quickly, then she's likely to forget about you. But if you follow up quickly, she's remember you, and you can get to know her a little through text messages, which you arrange a date.
Remember, when you're learning how to approach women, don't forget to smile, keep it light and frothy, and have fun! Don't take yourself too seriously. If she's not into you/has a boyfriend/ is married, then don't worry about it. Move on to the next girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea!